Fimela.com, Jakarta Kita hidup dengan banyak orang. Sungguh beruntung bila kita selalu dikelilingi oleh orang-orang baik yang selalu berpikiran positif. Tapi kadang kita tak bisa menghindari hadirnya orang-orang yang bisanya cuma memperburuk keadaan.
Paling menyebalkan memang bila ada orang yang menggosipkan keburukan dan kejelekan kita. Apalagi kalau orang tersebut bukan orang yang benar-benar kita kenal dan sok tahu sendiri, benar-benar bikin kesal. Tapi ya kalau terlalu mengurusi mereka, kita bakal buang-buang waktu saja. Jadi mending diketawain aja.
Waktu kita terlalu berharga untuk orang-orang "beracun"
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Daripada ngurusin orang-orang yang bisanya cuma membuat hidup menderita, mending kita fokus untuk mengisi hari kita dengan hal-hal yang lebih bermakna. Tak perlu memberi ruang pada orang-orang yang "beracun". Lebih baik fokus menikmati hari kita dengan lebih banyak kebahagiaan
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“Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around. Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you. Spend your life with people who make you smile, laugh, and feel loved.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
“The best way to treat obstacles is to use them as stepping-stones. Laugh at them, tread on them, and let them lead you to something better.” ― Enid Blyton, Mr Galliano's Circus
Jadikan motivasi untuk melangkah lebih jauh
Semua bahan gosip dan hal-hal tak mengenakkan yang kita dengar itu kita jadikan motivasi saja. Motivasi untuk melangkah lebih jauh. Motivasi untuk melakukan lebih banyak hal lain untuk membawa kita berada di level berbeda dan lebih tinggi daripada orang-orang yang bisanya cuma menjatuhkan kita.
Kita hidup dengan banyak orang. Memang sulit untuk membuat semua orang bisa suportif dan mendukung kita setiap saat. Ada saja orang yang ingin menjatuhkan kita atau membuat kita menderita. Tapi hidup ini kita yang punya dan perjuangkan, jadi tak perlu buang-buang energi untuk menanggapi orang-orang "beracun" jadi mending ketawain aja, ya.

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