Fimela.com, Jakarta Kencan adalah waktu yang paling intim dan istimewa untuk saling mengenal lebih dalam. Seharusnya hubungan berlanjut setelah beberapa kali kencan. Tapi ada juga hubungan yang kandas bahkan sebelum hubungan terjalin. Kenapa? Ternyata ada beberapa hal yang enggak disukai dari perilaku cowok ke ceweknya pada saat kencan. Apa saja?
#1

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Si cowok sangat yakin enggak bakal ditolak. Makanya dia menunggumu untuk menghampirinya.
#2

Memang kencan adalah waktu yang sangat intim, tapi kalau nafas si cowok enggak mengenakan, rasanya kencan jadi mimpi terburuk.
#3

Terlalu banyak membicarakan hal-hal yang berbau seksual.
#4

Kamu sudah bilang "enggak" tapi si cowok tetap memaksa.
#5

Si cowok terlalu banyak membicarakan dirinya sendiri untuk membuatmu suka padanya.
#6

Si cowok terlalu agresif, padahal baru beberapa kali ketemu.
#7

Terlalu cepat mengajakmu ke rumahnya. Padahal belum saling kenal lebih jauh.
Nah, kalau kamu mau hubunganmu dengannya berlanjut setelah beberapa kali kencan, sebaiknya kamu pelajari hal-hal yang enggak disukai cewek di atas ini. Ini demi kelancaran dan keberhasilan hubunganmu dengannya.
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