Fimela.com, Jakarta Tak kurang dari enam tahun sudah Shandy Aulia menikah dengan David Herbowo . Seperti keluarga pada umumnya, Shandy dan suami pun pernah dirundung masalah. Namun, sebisa mungkin mereka meredam segala pertikaian yang terjadi agar tak meluas dan jadi masalah besar.
Dalam salah satu keterangannya, perempuan 30 tahun ini mengungkap musuh dalam rumah tangganya. "Enemy itu bukan pasangan kita, tapi diri kita sendiri. Saya rasa gengsi harus dihilangkan. Sebenarnya mau nikah dengan siapapun, ganti pasangan sebanyak apapun, problem akan tetap sama," tutur Shandy saat ditemui di kawasan Menteng, Jakarta Pusat, beberapa waktu lalu.
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Mengalahkan musuh tersebut, Shandy memlih keterbukaan dan komunikasi yang sehat untuk terus mengarungi bahtera rumah tangga. Apapun, suka maupun duka senantiasa mereka bagikan pada satu sama lain.
"Kita open. Cerita apa yang kita rasa. Nggak boleh pendam. Kebanyakan perempuan yang kayak gitu dan cowok lebih banyak cuek. Tapi, sebenarnya harus tanya kenapa bisa begini," ungkap Shandy.
Sudah bercerita, Shandy dan suami pun kemudian berembuk untuk memecahkan permasalahan yang mendera. "Nggak hanya sampai situ. Tapi, solusi harus ada. Apa ya, jangan sampai kita nggak beresin masalah tapi ke depannya juga akan nggak beres," ujarnya.
Tak heran, meski mengaku kerap mendapatkan masalah, namun rumah tangga Shandy Aulia dan David Herbowo terkesan adem ayem. Kabar mring jarang sekali hinggap di pasangan yang belum dikaruniai buah hati tersebut.
Sang suami gagal memberikan kejutan makan malam romantis, berikut penjelasannya.

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