Fimela.com, Jakarta Dicintai sama pacar sih belum seberapa bahagianya dibanding jika dicintai sama pacar, plus dicintai keluarganya juga. Kalau kamu sudah memiliki keduanya, rasanya gerbang restu terbuka lebar untuk menuju pelaminan dan membangun rumah tangga bersama.
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Restu dari keluarga, terutama orang tua, memang hal penting dalam hubungan. Meski nggak sedikit yang tetap melenggang tanpa restu, banyak juga yang gagal--atau terpaksa menggagalkan hubungannya--karena nggak direstui orang tua. Kalau mau menjalin hubungan dengan aman dan tentram, memang sebaiknya pastikan dulu kamu mengantongi restu itu.
Nggak usah pakai tanya secara resmi seperti lagi lamaran, restu orang tua bisa juga kok kelihatan dari sikapnya dalam setiap momen kebersamaan kamu dan mereka. Bagaimana mereka memperlakukan kamu, bagaimana cara mereka berkomunikasi denganmu, sedikit banyak itu menunjukkan kadar restu! :p
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1. Kamu diikutsertakan dalam berbagai acara keluarga
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2. Bahkan nggak segan, kamu dihitung dalam pembagian seragam keluarga
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3. Suka ditanyain kapan main ke rumah
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4. Ibu, kakak, atau adik perempuannya nggak segan ngobrol dan diskusi sama kamu
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5. Orang tuanya sangat terbuka kalau kamu bercerita tentang hubungan kalian
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6. Ketika orangtuanya nggak bisa menjangkau pacarmu, kamu yang dimintai tolong untuk menyampaikan pesan
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7. Sambutannya selalu hangat setiap kamu datang, bahkan kamu dianggap bagian dari keluarga mereka
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Kalau orang tua pacarmu menunjukkan sikap-sikap ini setiap kali kalian bertemu, kamu boleh sedikit lebih tenang karena kemungkinan besar, kamu sudah mengantongi restu mereka untuk hubungan yang sedang kalian perjuangkan.
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