Fimela.com, Jakarta Rasa bosan memang musuh dalam hubungan, karena rasa bosan itu bisa menjadi penyebab putus. Banyak lho, pasangan yang putus karena salah satunya atau keduanya bosan. Kamu dan pacar pernah merasakan, nggak?
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Berawal dari bosan, lalu jadi mencoba bermain-main ke sana kemari cari hiburan. Lalu bosannya dibiarkan, nggak diatasi, lama-lama kebablasan tapi nggak sadar juga. Setelah hubungan di ujung tanduk, baru sadar kalau ternyata rasa bosan yang dibiarkan itu sama dengan menimbun alasan untuk berpisah. Hmm, kamu nggak mau kan itu terjadi?
Kalau kamu nggak mau kalah sama bosan, kamu bisa kok mencegah dan mengobatinya! Yang paling utama sih, rasa bosan pasti kalah sama komitmen. Kalau sudah komitmen, walau bosan melanda yang dilakukan ya mencari cara bersama supaya keluar dari kebosanan tersebut.
Coba deh, saat pacarmu terlihat sedang bosan kamu upayakan hal ini buat segera menepisnya:
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Nggak apa-apa, berikan dia ruang dengan perasaan bosannya dulu
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Tetap terlihat sabar dan jangan menekannya untuk berubah seketika
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Jaga pikiranmu tetap positif!
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Cari kegiatan untuk mendistraksimu
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Usahakan tetap berkomunikasi
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Berikan perhatian padanya
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Ajak liburan
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Bicara pelan-pelan, ingatkan perjuangan kalian dan mimpi-mimpi kalian
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Rasa bosan itu wajar dan memang semua pasangan pasti merasakan, tinggal bagaimana kamu menghadapinya saja. Kalau kamu biarkan dan kamu jadikan bulan-bulanan untuk bertindak semena-mena, rasa bosan itu bisa menghancurkan hubunganmu, tapi kalau nggak, ya kamu malah akan merindu dan kembali dengan pasanganmu dan tetap baik-baik saja. So, sabar saja menemani pacarmu yang lagi bosan. Ingatkan dia bahwa kalian saling sayang. Semoga lekas pulih rasa bosannya. :)
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