Fimela.com, Jakarta Diputusin pacar tuh nggak enak, apalagi putus pas lagi sayang-sayangnya. Duh! Dia tega meninggalkan tanpa memberi penjelasan apa-apa, membuat kamu jadi serba salah dan bingung harus bagaimana.
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Diputusin pas lagi sayang-sayangnya pasti bikin kamu jadi menyalahkan keadaan, menyalahkan diri sendiri, dan ingin melampiaskan kemarahan tapi nggak tahu harus melampiaskannya ke siapa. Nggak heran kalau kondisi seperti ini bisa memicu stres.
Well, mungkin sebenarnya dia nggak sebegitu tiba-tibanya bilang putus. Mungkin sebenarnya sudah ada pertanda, namun kamu lewatkan. Mungkin juga sebenarnya itu terjadi nggak sepenuhnya karena salahmu, tapi memang karena keegoisan dia.
Kalau kamu nggak ngerasa melakukan kesalahan apa-apa tapi dia tiba-tiba minta putus, bisa jadi ini penyebabnya:
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1. Kamu terlalu serius sama dia
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Kamu seriusin orang yang nggak serius sama kamu, ya gimana ya..
2. Sejak awal kamu salah mengartikan maksudnya
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Bisa jadi memang sebenarnya dia nggak ada maksud mau pacaran sama kamu, kamu aja yang menganggapnya berbeda.
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3. Dia nggak suka terikat komitmen
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Ya, mungkin dia suka, senang, atau nyaman bersamamu. Tapi bukan berarti dia mau terikt komitmen juga, kan?
4. Kamu posesif, kali?
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Sudah nggak suka terikat komitmen, diposesifin, pantas aja dia kabur.
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5. Atau bisa jadi, dia bosan
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Yes, mungkin dia bosan sehingga nggak perlu pikir panjang untuk ninggalin kamu.
6. Sudah punya yang lain
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Hmm, bisa jadi juga karena dia diam-diam sudah punya penggantimu.
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7. Ada sesuatu yang buat dia ilfil
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Tanpa sadar, kamu melakukan sesuatu yang salah di matanya dan itu nggak bisa dia tolerir makanya dia langsung mutusin kamu. Reaksi dia yang seperti itu memang berlebihan, sih. Tapi kalau memang dasarnya dia nggak serius sama kamu ya nggak aneh juga kalau dengan entengnya dia langsung bilang putus.

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